Spiritual But Not Religious (SBNR): Reasons for Being Unchurched

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SBNRs View Spirituality as Personal Journey - anitapatterson
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Many unchurched people are spiritual but not religious, meaning they do not practice a particular religion. Learn about spirituality and beliefs of seekers.

In the 19th century, the philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche famously declared, “God is dead.” Many people who are termed and who call themselves “spiritual but not religious” (SBNR) would agree.

It is important to point out that Nietzsche was not talking about the literal death of God, but rather the death of religious ideologies and religiously sanctified ideas about God. Nietzsche was alluding to the difficulty that traditional religions are having in retaining relevance in the modern world, a fact that the growing subset of unchurched people (currently 20 percent of Americans, according to BeliefNet.com) attests to.

Differences Between People who are Spiritual and People who are Religious

On first glance, it may seem like the terms “religious” and “spiritual” are similar, but in the view of religious traditionalists and spiritual seekers the words describe opposing points of view.

The term “religious” is usually interpreted as meaning adherence to a particular religion, orthodox doctrine, and consecrated belief structure, while the term “spiritual” is less rigidly defined and can encompass ideas from various, and sometimes seemingly discordant, faith traditions as well as personal spiritual ideas.

The BeliefNet.com article “Spiritual But Not Religious” notes that SBNRs “[forsake] formal religious organizations … [and] have instead embraced an individualized spirituality that includes picking and choosing from a wide range of alternative religious philosophies. They typically view spirituality as a journey intimately linked with the pursuit of personal growth or development.” The Pew Forum also addressed this spiritual cherry picking phenomenon in its 2009 study.

Religious individuals, on the other hand, are highly devoted to a particular religious organization and take many of the beliefs inherent in such a religious framework on faith.

Reasons People are Spiritual But Not Religious

Many unchurched people are agnostic to varying degrees. Many of these seekers are college educated and have found it difficult to accept many religions’ exclusive claims to truth, which are contradicted by their own study of scientific findings as well as their exploration of various cultures and belief systems.

CNN’s article “Are there dangers in being 'spiritual but not religious'?,” quotes theology and philosophy professor June-Ann Greely, who observed, "Religion demands that we accord to human existence some absolutes and eternal truths, and in a post-modern culture, that becomes all but impossible.”

Many SBNRs have also had negative experiences with religious institutions and church leaders. Some grew up in church organizations they found stifling. Some discovered that too much questioning of religious doctrine got them in trouble. Others butted heads with religious authorities over issues of morality and values – some finding religious dictates to be too constricting and out of touch and others discovering the institutions and members to be hypocritical.

Are SBNR Seekers a Threat to Religions?

Some religious leaders believe spiritual but not religious people pose a threat to organized religion. The CNN article explains how religion scholars warn that “seminaries, churches, mosques and other institutions will struggle for survival if they don't somehow convince future generations that being religious isn't so bad after all.”

Perhaps reacting partly out of fear, some leaders of world religions label the unchurched as lazy and egotistical. They point out SBNRs feel they do not need and have evolved beyond an established religious foundation, and, because of this perception, they forsake the benefits religions offer – a strong spiritual foundation and sense of community.

Jesuit priest James Martin, also quoted in the CNN piece, remarked, "Being spiritual but not religious can lead to complacency and self-centeredness. If it's just you and God in your room, and a religious community makes no demands on you, why help the poor?"

Despite the pitfalls inherent in going it alone, SBNRs are content to forge their own spiritual path, abandoning the authority of religious leaders and discarding packaged institutional answers.

Sources:

Are there dangers in being “spiritual but not religious”?, CNN.com. Retrieved July 22, 2010.

SBNR Community, SBNR.org. Retrieved July 20, 2010.

Spiritual, But Not Religious, BeliefNet.com. Retrieved July 22, 2010.

Aimee Larsen Stoddard, by writer

Aimee Larsen Stoddard - Aimee is a professional writer/editor. She has a BA in English and is currently completing an MS in Theology.

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May 25, 2011 3:46 AM
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the night my aunt died nobody knew she had gone - she had cancer and her apperance wasnt as it was before the diease. I was 5-6 and didnt know about religion or God, my family isnt religious so I wasnt exposed to ideas of faith and belief. The night she died I woke up to her standing next to my bed - she looked as she had before the cancer and she was smiling, she was surrounded by this bright intense colourless white light which lit up my bedroom, when I looked into the light I felt this overwhelming sense of love and joy, peace and happiness. She told me not to worry about the future as I had an important future - I didnt know what she meant and to this day I still dont - its a message of Hope which has haunted me my whole life. After my experince I thought my mind must have made it up until years later my mother told me as a child on the night my aunt died she heard me talking to someone. Since then I do believe there is life after death and that life is meant to be lived and enjoyed, I believe there is a power out there and you dont need religion to find it all you have to do is open your heart and your mind and you will find what your looking for. Another thing that I have gained from my experince is a sense that death isnt something to fear although occasional I have wobbled on this belief but that was usually after reading peoples neagtive comments online about there been no death but I always bounce back, the second thing that I have developed since my experince is a everlasting desire to learn and discover new knowledge and ideas - since leaving highschool I enrolled on several college and university course from art and design to literature and classical studies for 12 years since leaving highschool I have gone back into education time after time each year except one year which I decided to not attend and for that year I had a burning desire to return to learning so I did and then my life was fulfilled again. I will always be grateful for for my experince as it opened my heart and mind to the enity people call God or Allah and made me more spirtual whereas man made relgions have always made me feel unwelcomed because of there closed mindedness to accept others outside there group who are different to them. Pe3ace and Love be with you - Alex
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